During some recent interactions with people, I have had the opportunity to witness some truly hypocritical behavior. Just to be clear, I believe that a hypocrite is someone who says one thing and does the opposite. These people try to use some form of rationalization to justify their actions. I believe that these people also have double standards, they desire to have the best of both worlds. They go to church on Sundays and as soon as they walk out the door, they go back to living their “regular” lives. To further be clear, I know that I am a grounded person, very consistent in my behavior, as evidenced by feedback from multiple family, work, and professional association sources – I know that my behavior and values are constant, and rely on my beliefs and principles to guide my actions and interactions. So I say, stay true to your faith, your beliefs, and your actions. Always strive to take the high road, and never make disparaging comments to or against others.
For reference, below is supporting information for statements made above.
Websters: hyp·o·crite \ˈhi-pə-ˌkrit\
Function: noun
Date: 13th century
1 : a person who puts on a false appearance of virtue or religion
2 : a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings
Dictionary.com: hyp·o·crite / [hip-uh-krit]
1: a person who pretends to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that he or she does not actually possess, esp. a person whose actions belie stated beliefs.
2: a person who feigns some desirable or publicly approved attitude, esp. one whose private life, opinions, or statements belie his or her public statements.
Review of terms at http://www.thefreedictionary.com/hypocrite identifies some thesaurus terms: dissembler, dissimulator, phoney, phony, pretender, beguiler, cheater, deceiver, trickster, slicker, cheat, … [and one of my favorites] whited sepulchre – a person who is inwardly evil but outwardly professes to be virtuous.